Self-Care During Coronavirus: 9 Tips to Beat Loneliness and Isolation.

With California recently announcing a statewide shelter in place order aimed at preventing the spread of Coronavirus, it looks like many of us are going to be hunkered down at home for the foreseeable future.

While good for public health, this isolation can take a toll on your psyche. Under the best of times, retreating from the world can easily lead to loneliness, anxiety and depression, and physical symptoms related to these mental health challenges.

Add in the additional stresses that millions of us are now dealing with–health concerns, job loss, worrying about bills, keeping kids engaged with e-learning–and the chances of feeling isolated, lonely, and anxious go way up. Fortunately, there are steps you can take during Coronavirus lockdown to:

• Ward off loneliness
• Feel connected with your community and social circles
• De-stress
• Feel less anxious
• Establish good, balanced mental health

Read on to discover these strategies for better self-care during challenging times.

1-Name your emotions

Take a moment to assess how you’re feeling. Do you feel anxious? Depressed? Overwhelmed?

Try naming your emotions and identifying the feeling with an explanation. For example, “I’m anxious in my chest right now because I’m worried about draining my finances.” It sounds simple, but it really can help you calmly assess your emotions and lead to a greater sense of control and balance.

2-Find a routine that works for you

Humans are habitual creatures. Routines are comforting and help us make sense of life’s chaos. If you’re no longer going into the office or attending happy hour like normal, you might feel a little lost or unproductive.

Create a new routine. Set realistic, manageable goals for yourself and follow a ritual that makes sense for you.

• Maintain good sleep hygiene: Wake up and go to bed at the same time every day. Keep your bedroom a quiet, calm space.
• Exercise in any way you can–if possible, get outside and go on a walk with your spouse or your dog.
• Eat a healthy, balanced diet, with set mealtimes and regular snacks.
• Set boundaries between work from home time and personal time.
• Feel free to binge Netflix but be mindful of how many hours you spend in front of the TV.

3-Keep in touch (without touching)

Suddenly being cut off from friends, family, coworkers, and small everyday social interactions can severely impact your mental health during times of crisis. Positive social support improves our resilience for coping with stress, even when practiced at a distance.

Catch up with your next door neighbors over the garden fence (keeping a distance of at least 6 feet) or host an event from your balcony.

4-Use tech tools

Use FaceTime or Skype for video calling. These are not only great tools for remote working and communicating with friends and family, they are also a fantastic way to keep small children occupied on a call with grandparents while you take care of household chores or catch up on work. Businesses are even using video tools to host virtual happy hours.

Email, text messages, and messaging apps (WhatsApp, Slack, etc.) can also help you feel like part of the group again.

• Start group messages for family where you regularly check in and share updates
• Swap photos of your creative indoor activities with friends
• Create a thread with your coworkers where you share your best moments from the day, favorite work from home tips, and maybe even photos of your fluffy coworkers (your pets!)